An Eye Opener Of Epic Proportion

I once heard someone say; that once you meet those you admire, you can often become disappointed and disillusioned because they are not how you imagined they would be

 I have to say, that for me it was not the case. Sometimes those people become more like a mentor, they can open your eyes to a whole new world, filled with hard work, and dedication. Those rose coloured glasses, you know the ones, we paint a picture of a fan, goofy smile and all are wiped away, and a sense of contentment in knowing you're doing something right takes over

I think if I learned anything from Johnnie, Derry, Dave, Gary and Peter is that they are five down to earth,talented, funny guys who just happen to be in a band. With social media being so popular, I have learned that being in their shoes as well as countless others is sometimes not a journey they care to be on especially when people don't get them or really listen  to what they have to say.

I never expected to meet any of the band members from Honeymoon Suite, but I did get to meet both Johnnie Dee and Derry Grehan in 2002... It starts with me (Christine) setting up the hmslounge on MIRC. There was a website that went along with the lounge.

When I spoke to both Johnnie and Derry, over the phone twice, in 02 and '03. I know what you're thinking....She's just saying that to brag, but no. It's to give you an idea of what I know about them, and the band in general.

While I gained knowledge, from those conversations we had. It gave me more of an understanding of who they are,and  what they go through on a daily basis.

 Upon meeting them, I instantly felt welcomed and received, into their world. The respect is shared, truly and honestly, but at the same time to gain that respect, you must show them, the same kindness. It makes a huge difference, and means so much to them.

After meeting the boys (Johnnie and Derry), who were and are still my focus, along with the rest of HMS, I was told that I was a classy little lady. 


This past year, the admins and members in general, have been putting projects together that are hms themed. We hope that as you all check out our posts,in various formats, that you are truly happy with, and appreciate the effort and work we put into it.

 With the insight  I have gained over the years I know that I have learned a great deal from the guys in the band.

I hope they know that we appreciate them as individuals, and as the band we all grew up

listening to.

As fans we love going on their band page on facebook, which is excellent, for those fans who truly care, not just about "the band", but about the men behind the music, sometimes people don't see things from others point of view and things get lost in translation.

 For example respect what they have to say and what it may have taken for them to post the update,and comment. It's supposed to be fun, not stressful. Try walking in their shoes, if you don't see an update, a reply to your messages, don't panic. They are a very busy group, have patience and tact.

Let them get back to you. Don't go posting on their page, and act like a jackass, by saying

something you can't take back.

Remember they are people too, and have the same feelings. 

Some don't like posting very much not out of disrespect to their fans or friends..

They just don't. Take the rose coloured glasses off, and walk a mile in their shoes.

Pay them the same respect you pay others because they deserve it and so much more. I am truly blessed to have met them, and I speak for all of us when I say THANK YOU!! For the music, the laughter, the stories, and patience for all our questions. Now for those that barage them with stupidity, no offence, take a step back, reread the post, until it makes sense to you, and then comment.

By doing this you gain clarity into what is truly being said, and what they mean.

Mona Doucette now has a few words she'd like to say ,I grew up in the 70's and 80's,

music, especially Canadian music was really important to me.I might not have had the most

recent tapes from anyone, but when a HMS song came on, I recorded it, off the radio.

 I still have a cassette or two from those days. I became friends

with Christine and she brought me joy, the way she speaks, and her passion

are second to none.

Music is a big part of us. It helps us get through a bad day, remember a good moment.

I've sang along (badly) but still I'm being honest, to most of their music. I've never met them,

but as an admin, I still give them the kudos, and alot of respect. I value their music, and I

value each of them as individuals       

With that being said , as admins of the group we are loyal HMS Fans, who stand by what

we say, and stand behind guys who give us the gift of their music.